Alvin is a big-hearted, humble man—an introvert by nature—who quietly helps shape the soul of Community Church.

For most of his 35-year marriage to his outgoing and memorable husband, Darryl, Alvin preferred to stay behind the scenes. Together, they visited several churches over the years, searching for more than just a Sunday service—they longed for a spiritual home where they could be fully known, fully loved, and part of something bigger than themselves. But each time, they left feeling unseen or disconnected. One pastor didn’t remember their names after months of attending. Another church felt warm at first but unraveled after conflict. Again and again, they hoped for belonging—and left still searching.

When they arrived at Community Church, everything began to shift. Darryl was invited to play keyboard right away, and for the first time, they felt a sense of belonging. A community began to form around them. But then, tragedy struck. After a fall at work, Darryl was diagnosed with cancer. Alvin became his caregiver, managing doctor visits and medication regimens through the emotional rollercoaster of Darryl’s illness. During that time, the church community wrapped around them. Members called, visited, prayed, and even helped financially. The love they felt was real and unwavering.

After Darryl passed, Alvin sank into a deep depression—what he describes as a “wilderness.” He stopped coming to church. But Community Church didn’t stop showing up for him. Pastor Ben and others called regularly, reminding Alvin he wasn’t alone. Eventually, he remembered a promise he made to Darryl—to be OK—and found the strength to return. Today Alvin is still discovering who he is without Darryl, but he’s doing it surrounded by care, laughter, and grace of our Church community. 

Alvin is a beloved presence in the congregation. The church programs have added relevancy to his life, and he, in turn, contributes to its vitality. He is often an usher greeting those who come with a friendly smile or a hug. He’s a committee leader helping to select our new Associate Pastor. Volunteering on the facilities crew, Alvin is often the first to work on the grounds each Tuesday and the last to leave. By supporting the programs that the church offers, you are making it possible for the church to be life affirming for so many members.

Written by Michael Citrino